The virtual wife or the actual mistress.

A married man with bad job makes a choice. Let's look at both. Either he escapes to the virtual reality world of Second Life, or he transfers to another department. He hangs out at a zero gravity bar. He eats lunch in the break room. He floats over to a woman and strikes up a conversation. He sits next to a woman and makes small talk. Basic quests together become inseparable campaigns. Casual lunches turn to romantic dinners. He takes her to be his virtually wedded wife. During a work retreat he spends a passionate night in her room. In the end, what does it matter? He is still an adulterer.